Not Knowing

In life nothing is certain – we forever fall through the emptiness of not knowing. Unable to feel comfortable with such uncertainty, we may close our eyes to the full potential of our lives, clinging to the illusions of safety offered by habit and routine. However, to life fully we must open our eyes and accept our fears of the unknown. We must allow chance to play its part. We must take risks from time to time.

This is intrinsic to a lot of what Geoff Thompson says about life and fear, as you can see in this video:

Know Fear – Geoff Thompson on YouTube.com

5 Important Lessons in How to Treat People

These are from an unknown author, but all credit goes to whoever it is…

1. First Important Lesson – "Know The Cleaning Lady"
During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.
"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say "hello."
I’ve never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.

2. Second Important Lesson – "Pickup In The Rain"

One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.
A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.
She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man’s door. To his surprise, a giant console colour TV was delivered to his home.
A special note was attached. It read: "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband’s bedside just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others."
Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.

3. Third Important Lesson – "Remember Those Who Serve"
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. "50¢," replied the waitress.
The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.
"Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient. "35¢!" she brusquely replied.
The little boy again counted his coins. "I’ll have the plain ice cream," he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left.
When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies. You see, he couldn’t have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.

4. Fourth Important Lesson – "The Obstacles In Our Path"

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.
Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand – "Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition."

5. Fifth Important Lesson – "Giving When It Counts"
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year-old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes, I’ll do it if it will save her."
As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the colour returning to her cheeks. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away?".
Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.

Be inspired. Be good. Be nice.

Assorted Cures for Abscess Toothache

Hi all,

As mentioned in my previous post on using whiskey to cure tooth pain, there are often many things you wouldn’t think of trying when you really need to get rid of a nasty toothache.

For the past week or so, my father has been suffering from an abscess beneath his wisdom tooth, and has had it so badly he wasn’t able to sleep, eat or anything for a lot of the time. (He’s gone to the dentist today, so he’ll be fine., by the way.) During the night last night, my mother tried a handful of home remedies for the condition, and one or some of them definitely worked. Even this morning, he feels much better. In light of the success we had, I thought I’d post them in case they are useful to somebody. Here goes:

  • Pour a teaspoon of warm olive oil (we used extra virgin, but I doubt it matters) in the ear of the side of your head that is in pain.
  • Mix salt and bicarbonate of soda to make a powder, and put on and around the affected tooth to help draw out the infection.
  • (This is the one that really seemed to help a lot) Mix some sesame oil and powdered nutmeg to make a brown paste, and rub around the affected tooth and gum. Be careful with this though; apparently it is a mild narcotic. In small doses (like the amount you would put on a tooth or two) then it should be fine, but don’t make a cup of it to drink or anything stupid, eh? You’ll probably get hallucinations or something…
  • Hold an ice pack on the affected area to help numb it. I don’t know if this is typical of abscesses, but my dad couldn’t feel the cold in the area very much at all. It took a long time for his teeth to feel the cold, and still his cheek didn’t! Just thought I’d mention so that people don’t worry; I think it’s just the swelling that causes this effect.
    Useful? Hopefully. Stick us a comment if any of these worked for you, or if you’ve tried something else that you think people should know about! :)

Weekly Stumble: Self-Actualisation

Hi all,

This week’s Weekly Stumble is a pretty interesting article about self-actualisation, a concept summed up in this quote:

"Self Actualization is the intrinsic growth of what is already in the organism, or more accurately, of what the organism is."

Abraham Maslow

The page is here: http://psikoloji.fisek.com.tr/maslow/self.htm and it actually loos really interesting. I’ve had a read through and it all seems to be a pretty good set of ideas to live by on the whole.

So, are you a “Self-Actualising” person? Or don’t you go in for this stuff?

Just a thought I wanted to provoke this morning :) Have a nice week people ^_^

Combat training – outside and inside makes a nice mix

Hey all,

Today, I decided to train outside a little instead of being inside all day revising.

I started with the usual punching and kicking stuff on the punchbag in the garage, but then I decided to do some weapons techniques outside, as I’ve neglected my weapons training a lot recently.

I fixed an old tyre onto a tree with my dad for striking practice; essentially a punchbag for sticks, as I heard it was the best way to train for Eskrima technique. Whoever told me wasn’t wrong either, it was wonderful! I’ll perhaps put a picture up sometime, and tell you how we fixed it on securely.

Anyway, the training isn’t the point this time. The point was that I did it outside instead of inside. I’d really recommend to all the martial artists and various other sportspeople out there. Afterwards, I felt really positive (it was sunny, but windy and so cool and refreshing) and energised by the training, more so than usual, and it was just a really pleasant experience to train outside in the fresh air, instead of spending all afternoon bashing away at the bag in the garage. I also went on for ages (long enough to even up my awful left hand using Eskrima, that is!) hitting the thing.

It’d be quite interesting to know actually, do you prefer to train inside, or outside? Or, like me, a bit of both? Discuss away in the comments…

Funny Antiseptic Tube: Don’t put it on your brain!

Hi all,

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As you may have gathered by now I’m always on the lookout for funniness in all its forms. The more tasteful aspects of these I share online! :)

Here’s something I noticed a while ago when for some reason I was looking at the directions of a tube of anaesthetic, and I found it really funny:

DSC00944Avoid contact with brain? I’ll bear that advice in mind next time I graze my parietal lobe… O_o

I mean, come on…

An Unconventional (but tasty) Cure for Tooth Pain

Hey all,

Recently I’ve been suffering from some pain from my wisdom teeth as they push their way through my gums. I’ve tried loads of different ideas, from simply eating on the other side, to eating only on the painful side (some say it helps wear away the painful inflamed gum, not sure if it’s good to do though, didn’t seem to help me much!), to Ibuprofen, to aspirin, to using Bonjela teething gel!

The problem is, Bonjela gives me stomach aches for some reason. I don’t quite understand that but never mind…

So my dad gave me an idea, and I didn’t think it’d work at first, but I tried it anyway. All he said was this:

  1. Get 1 teaspoon of Scotch whiskey (the stronger the better)
  2. Put it in your mouth, and tilt your head to hold the Scotch over the area that is painful for as long as you possibly can.

imageIf all goes well, the pain should go! Mine went for around 16 hours or so when I tried this – it worked much better than anything else. If it doesn’t work then never mind – you’ve had an excuse for a drink! Well, a taste at least. :P

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